This event is designed for anyone in the Poly or Kink Community that is looking to learn how to be a better partner!

A 3-hour workshop for polyamory and kink community members who want better connection skills.

What You’ll Learn About . . .

Safety first: spotting red flags and protecting yourself

Being seen and heard: how specific communication skills will significantly increase your ability to be seen and heard

Boundaries that work: how to set and hold them with clarity and kindness

Anger & stress: the 11 styles of anger expression and how to communicate in both good times and hard moments

Self-Confidence: recognizing when you need to have difficult conversations that matter to build your relationships stronger

Why This Matters

Because relationships in poly and kink thrive when you know how to show up with confidence, safety, and authenticity. This class provides you with tools that you can use immediately in social settings, in your current relationships, or in new ones.

Time: 8:55 AM to Noon
Location: The All Good Things Center in Escondido
Cost: Morning Only - $30 / Both Sessions - $50
Seats are limited — grab yours by clicking the button!

You’ve got the foundation, now it’s time to turn words into heat.

This isn’t theory, it’s practice you’ll use the same day.

If you’ve ever wished you could say what you want, ask for what you need, or spark heat with just your words, this class is for you.

This 3-hour workshop takes you deeper, giving you the skills to:

What to say when things are good (and not good): appreciation language and repair scripts that strengthen intimacy

Conflict and repair: how to de-escalate, own mistakes, and rebuild closeness after tension

Talking about sex: how to share desires, fantasies, and boundaries without shame

Dirty talk with confidence: finding your style, reading your partner, and building arousal through words

Why This Matters

Because words shape connection. The right words can make your partner feel safe, valued, and turned on. This class gives you the confidence to talk about sex, handle conflict, and create intimacy that lasts.

Time: 12:55 PM to 4 PM
Location: The All Good Things Center in Escondido
Cost: Afternoon Only - $30 / Both Sessions - $50
Seats are limited — grab yours by clicking the button!

Facilitators

This discussion will be led by Anitalyn (like Anita and Lyn put together in one word), a licensed clinical social worker with more than 20 years of experience helping people become the best version of themselves. She is a psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy, polyamory, kink, and other alternative lifestyles. She has been part of the San Diego kink and poly communities (where she is known as Renee) for more than ten years. If you know her as Renee, call her that!

Her husband, Dan, will co-host the event. He is best known for his role as a Shibari instructor for All Tied Up San Diego and alongside his wife, they have navigated many a difficult conversation in the Kink, Poly, and ENM world.

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